Showing posts with label TTC. Show all posts
Showing posts with label TTC. Show all posts
Monday, October 7, 2013

bismIllah...



Seperti yang pernah diblogkan sebelum ni, aku consume Qaseh Gold Adinda sejak Mei-Jun lepas sebagai usaha untuk hamil anak kedua.

Aku tak penah pakai ape-ape pun untuk merancang... So bila Razin dah cukup setahun, terus aku ON je untuk bagi Razin adik. Razin dah 2 tahun 6 bulan baru aku disahkan hamil.

Bagi aku, lama jugak la proses TTC tu. Dari duduk sekali di Johor sampai dok asing-asing starting January 2013 till now. Alhamdulillah husband dapat draf ke Lumut semula and lapor diri 16 Oktober ni.

Anyway, just nak share pengalaman TTC.

First sekali, period cycle. Aku bersyukur dikurniakan kitaran haid yang takde masalah. I'm regular as a clockwork. Cycle aku 26 hari.

Untuk yang ade masalah period, elok la betulkan cycle tu dulu... Boleh jumpa doc untuk penerangan lanjut. Leh jugak consume supplement yang boleh bantu betulkan cycle. Yong (kakak aku) amik Qaseh Gold baru la period dia teratur katanya. Kalau tak, penah je sebulan or 2 bulan tak period. Tapi takde baby pun.

Aku sebenarnye pemalas tahap gaban nak jot down bila period, bila abis period... sebab tu aku selalu tweet je. "arini bendera merah la plak" would be what I tweeted. So nanti aku check je twitter aku. HAHA... pemalas!


Kedua, berat badan. Well, aku CUBA jugakla nak kurus untuk dapatkan berat badan ideal. Tapi hampeh gak haha... awal-awal beli cross trainer memang aku rajin workout. Pehtu maleh. hahaha... tapi betul la, nak preggy seeloknye dapatkan berat badan ideal. Tak kurus sangat, tak gemuk sangat.


Ketiga, amik supplement. Aku amik Qaseh Gold Adinda dan air Sole (garam mineral). Husband ku pun aku bagi Qaseh Kekanda... tapi bab laki aku tu, tak tau ler dia makan hari-hari ke tak. Aku juga amik asid folic beli kat farmasi.


Keempat, kira hari bila akan bertelur (ovulation week). Selalunya hari ke-13 lepas kita tau kita period. Means, kalau macam aku yang period 5-6 hari, dlm lebih kurang 6-7 hari lepas abis period tu waktu subur la... Ovari tengah mengeluarkan telur.. So kalau nak bersama dengan suami, sangat afdhal pada waktu subur ni la.

Bagi yang PJJ macam aku and hubby (tahun ni), memang susah la sikit. Yela, laki balik time period ke... dia balik time x subur ke etc. So, bagi married couples yang berPJJ and masih belum ada rezeki, sabo jelah... memang amik masa... insya Allah kalau ade rezeki tu ada la.

Aku baru je join group TTC kat FB. Baru tau macam-macam masalah kesuburan yang wujud rupanya.

For women, antara yang paling common is PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Disease). 

Amende PCOS tu?

Polycystic (pah-lee-SIS-tik) ovary syndrome (PCOS) is a health problem that can affect a woman's:
  • Menstrual cycle
  • Ability to have children
  • Hormones
  • Heart
  • Blood vessels
  • Appearance
With PCOS, women typically have:
  • High levels of androgens (AN-druh-junz). These are sometimes called male hormones, though females also make them.
  • Missed or irregular periods (monthly bleeding)
  • Many small cysts (sists) (fluid-filled sacs) in their ovaries

Ada banyak lagi problem selain PCOS. Endometriosis, fibroids... etc.

Lelaki pun menyumbang jugak... bilangan sperm yang sikit, sperm motility etc... 

Seeloknya bagi yang dah setahun kahwin and belum ada rezeki, rujuk pakar. Jangan tunggu lama-lama cos semakin meningkat usia, semakin kurang subur.

Kalau memang takde masalah kesihatan, then memang belum rezeki... Insya Allah nanti ada lah tu.

I'm in delicate mood since preggy.

Kalau leh nak ramai kawan-kawan TTC preggy too. 

Selalu jenguk-jenguk group and baca kisah TTC kat situ...

Esok ada appointment dengan Dr Ngo. Aritu pergi dia scan tak nampak ape lagi (of cos la, baru 4 weeks kot!). So esok dia nak scan lagi...

Kekadang rasa macam tak percaya je pregnant. Tapi till now takde period and pregnancy test pun positif, so.. ya... ada baby dalam rahim ni. Syukur Ya Allah...

Razin pun sekarang manja semacam je. Macam tahu nak berkongsi kasih lepas ni. I still love you, Razin. :')



Written By Ryehana
alhamdulIllah...
Thursday, September 26, 2013
bismIllah...




Banyak kan test yang dipakai?

Sebabnye tak sabar... hahaha..  actually ada lagi satu tapi dah takleh guna cos aku terbagi basah kat window tu. 

Still in early stages of pregnancy...

Doakan semuanya baik-baik sahaja ya.

Alhamdulillah... syukur sangat-sangat.



After 1 year and 6 months trying to conceive...


1. Yang aku perasan, aku pregnant lepas 3 bulan makan Qaseh Gold Adinda + Sole.

2. Berurut yang sedap sangat tu... (aku takde masalah ape-ape pun kata makcik tu... saje urut jelah)

3. Banyakkan doa dan bersedekah.

4. Mungkin berkat doa dari kawan-kawan dan juga customers (mana yg dpt diskaun/free gifts etc hehe)

5. BD before ovulation week dan on the last day of ovulation week.


*BD = Baby Dance (have sex) --- ni term aku belajar dalam group TTC di FB hehehe...


Semoga kawan-kawan yang tengah TTC berjaya hamil juga nanti, doaku untuk kalian... =D


Written By Ryehana
alhamdulIllah...
Monday, August 26, 2013
bismIllah...


I actually decided to take a break from TTC last few weeks. Tapi sebelum tu sempat juga usya di FB tentang orang yang boleh datang mengurut ke rumah... untuk ibu-ibu lepas pantang. Sebelum ni kalau berurut aku mesti balik kampung, panggil Mak Cik Timah tu datang mengurut.

Sebelum ni jugak aku perasan yang kalau berurut, takdela rasa sedap or best sangat? Biase je.... mungkin tak serasi sangat kot? Ntah.

Bila dah dapat orang yang mengurut di Lumut ni, baru la aku boleh compare.

Kisahnye bermula beberapa hari lepas aku saja gatal check posts kat group 'I Love Manjung' di Facebook tentang ni... mencari contacts... then sorang sis ni recommend seorang akak di Manjung.

Dia bagi nombor rumah je. So aku pun call la semalam. Dapat cakap, then akak tu (Kak Nor) gitau esok boleh amik dia pukul 3petang. Maka, hari ni aku pun pergi la amik dia.

Gitau la yang aku ni TTC. heheh... and aku gitau jugak sebelum ni pernah berurut ngan makcik kat kampung, makcik tu gitau peranakan turun ke ape tah.. sebab angkat benda berat. Kak Nor ni gitau 'Tak semestinya'. Wahh positif sangat. I like! hehehe...

She started from the back. Urut urat-urat... memang terasa. Sakit tapi sedap.

Detail sangat urutan dia sampai ke jari jemari. Bila part yang aku tetiba rasa sakit gila, akak ni buat slow-slow sambil selawat... zikir... rasa tenang je.

Great feeling, masya Allah.

Bila part urut bahagian depan, kat perut tu, sedap je rasa. Haha. Akak tu siap tanya, ada masalah buang air besar ke? I said yes. Memang kekadang aku ni nak membuang seksa benor rasa. Waktu tu dia tengah urut urat yang berkaitan 'sistem pembentungan' ni. Hihi...

Part paling sakit bila dia urut belah kanan aku. She said urat besar aku lari alignment. Allah... macam nak terkencing aku rasa. Udah macam sakit nak beranak pun yer jugak. Tapi alhamdulillah sekejap je. Masa aku tengah tahan sakit tu, dia ajak selawat and zikir sama-sama. Syukur alhamdulillah lepas tu lega sangat. Rasa ringan badan.

Dia jugak kata takde masalah pun dengan kedudukan rahim etc. Urat jela kembang... and she said that's normal la.. pemakanan kita etc. huhu...

Ape sebenarnye punca urat kembang? Lupa pulak nak tanya tadi... nanti aku google.

Tu je nak catat kali ni. Supaya aku ingat ape yang aku experience. Pengalaman yang best mesti dicatat untuk ingatan di masa hadapan hehe...

Kak Nor tu jugak cakap memang rezeki aku hari ni dapat dia datang mengurut. First time call terus dapat. Katanya, ada orang dok booking dia berbulan-bulan baru dapat cos dia punye schedule busy bebenor. Orang dah book sampai ke tahun depan. Huhu... alhamdulillah. Allah nak bagi aku experience urutan dari orang selain makcik Timah kat kampung.

So far memang puas hati sangat-sangat. Dapat satu sesi pun aku dah lega walaupun aku tengah period sebenarnya... and my fertile week coming up next week husband aku takde. huahua... (sebab tu susah cos tak duduk sekali kan. Timing lari je... =P)

Last sekali masa dah abis sesi mengurut, Kak Nor mintak garam sesudu. Suruh bungkus dalam tisu dan bagi dia. Untuk ape wallahualam. Ade la tu kot pantang larang dia...

Moga murah rezeki Kak Nor tu cos tolong orang. :)


Written By Ryehana
alhamdulIllah...
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
bismIllah...


Rindu sangat kat Razin. Yer, left him in Beruas since Sunday... aku memang kerja asyik tinggalkan dia kat kampung jer cos aku takde assistant untuk tengok-tengokkan Razin time aku tengah bekerja.

Pedulikla orang nak kata tak jaga anak ke ape... yang aku tau, I'm doing the best I could right now. Ala... umah Mamito just 45 minutes away jer... (or 30 minutes away from Lumut kalau aku drive laju)

Aku akan balik Beruas every Wednesday. Kenapa Rabu? Sebab ada Pekan Rabu /lambak/ pasar malam. Hehe... so leh menyinggah. Khamis aku akan balik Lumut semula and bawak Razin... Sabtu or Ahad balik Beruas again and tinggal dia semula hahaha...

Last Saturday, aku berurut dengan makcik yang urut aku masa lepas bersalin dulu. Saje la... sebabnye Mamito panggil makcik tu tolong urut tangan dia, so aku menyibuk gak la.. lepas urut mak, tolong urut aku and check peranakan aku ni. Yela.. trying to conceive kan. So usaha la ni...

Rupanya memang betul dia cakap peranakan jatuh ke bawah... rahim jatuh? Entah tak reti aku nak citer... tapi sebab jadi macam tu makcik tu kata kerana aku ada angkat benda-benda berat. Well, of course le kan. Memang le ade.

Makcik tu kata lagi, "Memang le susah nak lekat... abis keluar je sumenya..."

By that I assumed abis kuar sume sperma kah? ekekeke... errr... blog ni blog dewasa ya. Sape belum kawen pegi main jauh-jauh.

Well... aku takdela beria sangat nak TTC di bulan Ramadhan ini (apakah???) ape lagi bukannye laki aku duduk sebumbung pun. Maka, chances to conceive memang nipis sampai la beliau pulang semula ke Perak. Lambat lagi... Takde beria amik folic acid jugak. Patutnye kalau ttc kena amik folic acid orang cakap...

Ade hikmah juga, aku boleh full throttle untuk capai sales target. Hehe...

Macam-macam benda aku jual.. semuanya revolve around the growth of my son. Kalau dulu masa Razin kecik lagi, aku banyak jual cloth diapers la ape la... yang untuk small baby.

Now dah berkembang ke toddlerhood.

Remember last post yang aku ade iklankan playhouse tu? Barang dah sampai last week and aku dah pasang dah pun. Pasang kat Beruas cos kat umah Lumut ni takde space since umah aku pun dah macam gudang. :P

Tunggu tenants blah baru  aku angkut balik playhouse tu ke Lumut.

Bawah ni video Razin yang happy dapat 'taman'. Tapi record kejap jer...


Best ok rumah ni. Razin suka sangat.

Masa baru pasang dia happy gile seperti terbukti pada gambar di bawah:

Hihihi...
Main la puas-puas yer Razin...


Sesiapa berminat nak beli playhouse di atas can contact me.

Retail  price: RM729.90

My price termsk postage? Email la yer... hehe...

And sebab barang ni pre-order, deposit RM200. Bila barang dah smpai at my place baru bayar balance.
Fleksibel kan? Leh la bajet-bajet jugak. :P

Kalau amik sendiri kat Lumut leh jimat kos pos. Tapi kotak ni besar gedabak. Muat SUV and MPV sahaja.
Perodua Alza muat jugak tapi tak nampak belakang ler huhu...



Lagi ape eh...

Oh yer... Mama Panda ade jual Desidoll Aminaa juga. Yang Talking Muslim Doll tu...

Leh refer gambar di bawah: 


PRICE: RM165

Add RM5 utk poslaju semenanjung.

Kalau beli more than one ade diskaun lagi. Meh beli meh... 

Authentic products yer..

Yang Yousuf punya takde stok lagi. This week or next week baru ada kot.

Lama sangat nak tunggu so  Razin main jela dengan Aminaa ni. hehehe...

Saje nak tunjuk jelah benda alahnye fungsi camne...



Full description:
Aamina will recite some essential Quranic words, phrases and surahs together with their meanings, including:
  • Now with Tajweed - correct Arabic pronunciation
  • As-Salamu'Alaikum
  • Bismillah hir Rahman nir Raheem
  • Al-hamdu lillah
  • Subhanallah
  • Insha'llah
  • Jazakallah Khair
  • Masha'llah
  • La ilaha illallah, Muhammad dur Rasul'llah
  • Surah Ikhlas followed by translation
  • Surah Fatiha followed by translation
  • Songs about Islam
Sesuai untuk budak 3 tahun ke atas actually...

Tapi leh je budak 2 years main. Monitor la jangan dia rosakkan doll tu heheheh...

Sekian, tu je kot post kali ni.

Salam...
Written By Ryehana
alhamdulIllah...
Sunday, July 8, 2012
bismIllah...






I'm late. I'm usually very regular.


Padahal baru 2 hari lewat, entah-entah esok lusa period. kuikui...


Nak wat camne, when you're trying to conceive, camni la kot gayanya... the slightest delay in menstrual cycle would bring hope and a lil excitement.


Tapi sedih cos bila check, NEGATIVE! hahahaha...


I know, cos I already check TWICE.


Excited kan... yer, memang aku tak sabar... tapi kalau dah belum rezeki lagi, bersabar jelah...


Aku ni siap test pregnant ke tak before tarikh aku period lagi... punyer la tak sabar kan...
Siap beli Clearblue pregnancy test cos orang kata pakai yang mahal ni leh tau awal. Ni gara-gara Fasha Sandha pakai test kit ni and tau dia preggy 2 weeks... so aku pun beli la... 


Aku beli 2 home pregnancy test, satu Clearblue, satu lagi jenama Watsons. Saje... sebab rasa-rasa dalam hati pun macam takkan la awal sangat dah pregnant? hehehe...


1st test, 3rd July 2012:


NEGATIVE.

Huhu...

sedih... tapi dok pikir, ala... awal lagi... takpe, kalau period lusa... kita cuba lagi, fikirku.

Dalam hati memang ada rasa macam... ish? Yeke tak preggy ni? 
Terkejut... and then baru sedih.
Pastu muhasabah diri.

Mungkin ada hikmahnye Allah tak bagi aku preggy bulan ni... maybe bulan depan?

I just keep hoping there will be a bun in my oven soon.



Then, 5th of July came and went.

On 6th July, ttill, no red flag. Aku pelik dah time ni... selalunye on time jer... tapi aku ni pun over, baru sehari lewat dah kecoh. hehe...

Sampai petang takde ape-ape... so aku pun tak sabar pergi la test lagi sekali. Yela, dok pikir gak ntah-ntah ade defect ke kat test sebelum ni etc... :p

2nd test, 6th July 2012:

NEGATIVE again!
(Kalau positif, ada 2 line merah kat strip)

Perasaan merudum

Sedih.

Kecewa.

Tapi takdela sampai teriak kan... just rasa down je la...

Bagitau husband that I did the 2nd test, and he just smiled.

He said, "Ala belum ada rezeki lagi la tu... rileks la..." sambil sengih-sengih.

Aku pun ok la...

Yela, it's not like we're in a rush. Cuma aku dah target tahun depan nak beranak. So doa-doakan la tercapai impian ni.

Sian Razin main sorang-sorang....


Now aku paham la perasaan orang yang tengah nak hamil... or trying to conceive. Memang kena banyak sabar...


I'm grateful I already have Razin. Sayang Razin ketat-ketat... I love him so much I want to give him siblings! =)


Sekarang aku tengah demam selsema... now aku confuse lagi, selalunya kalau selsema macam nak rak ni tanda-tanda preggy gak.


Tapi... yelah, kan aku dah check sampai 2x. Takde ape pun...


Ade kawan suggest untuk buat test tu waktu pagi-pagi cos dia kata dia penah check waktu selain pagi and memang negative. Then waktu pergi klinik untuk amik HPV ke ape tah, nurse tanya and suruh dia buat pregnancy test dulu... and buat waktu pagi. Baru la positif!


Aku tak tau.. takde pengalaman... cos masa preggy mula-mula dulu check time lunch hour kat tandas di ofis. Elok je positif nyer... tapi time tu memang takde plan ke ape ke... tak keep track pun bila last day period etc.


Now baru aku keep track bila first day period, last day period untuk dapat accurate due date untuk beranak. Keep track since bulan May...

Oklah... nak citer tu jer...

I expect I'll get my period in a couple of days then...


Bye!

***Footnote: sebelum dapat komen tentang 'benda camni pun nak citer kat blog ke... simpan jela benda peribadi etc...", just nak kabo, aku memang nak blog tentang perkara ni untuk kongsi journey TTC aku dengan fellow TTC mommies. Kalau-kalau ade readers sudi mendoakan aku untuk preggy, alhamdulillah... Kalau tak kenan, tak yah baca.






Written By Ryehana
alhamdulIllah...
Sunday, June 17, 2012
bismIllah...


Amaran: Bacaan orang dah kahwin sahaja.

Semalam, aku takleh tido... so aku google la camne nak dapat baby girl. Yela.. nama lagi tengah TTC kan (Trying To Conceive),  so saje la gatal google cara-cara nak dapat baby girl lak pasni. Takde kerja kan... HAHA...

Frankly, I don't really mind if I get another boy, as long as preggy! hehe... tapi kalau Allah nak bagi perempuan, best jugak sebab belum ada =)

Alhamdulillah my cycle is very regular. Kalau tengok menstrual calendar punyer apps kat phone yang aku installed, if it says I'll have my period on the 7th June, memang 7th June aku bendera merah. So, leh la try-try tips online ni kan... hehe...

Ni aku copy paste Shettles Method yang sangat famous kalau nak dapat baby girl. Ade lagi satu method iaitu O+12... tapi aku rasa better try Shettles Method dulu (cos O+12 punyer method tu bertentang dengan Shettles')

How to Conceive a Girl

Determining the Time of Ovulation:

Determining when you ovulate is vital when you are learning how to conceive a girl. Shettles recommends that you have sex 2 1/2 to 3 days BEFORE ovulation in order to increase your chances of conceiving a girl. Having sex closer to ovulation will dramatically decrease your chances of conceiving a girl. The timing of intercourse in relation to ovulation is a vital factor in increasing your chances of having a girl.
Shettles suggests three specific ways in which to do this.

1) Charting Cervical Mucus

Dr Shettes goes into full detail on how to chart your cervical mucus in Part Three of his book, How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby. You can download a blank CM chart in two different formats: PDF or Excel Spreadsheet.

With this method of determining when you ovulate, you access your cervical mucus on a daily basis. Right before you ovulate, your cervical mucus should be very watery and very elastic. It’s consistency should be that of raw egg white. Charting for more than a month before you attempt to conceive a girl is recommended so you can be CERTAIN that you are ovulating on a specific day.

------AKU ABAIKAN. TAKDE KERJA NAK CHART CERVICAL MUCUS!---------

2) Basal Body Temperature (BBT) Charting

Shettles also suggests that you use BBT charting a long with charting your cervical mucus in order to gain as much information in order to pinpoint when exactly you are ovulating. He goes into full detail on how to accurately chart your BBT in Part Three of his book. You can download a blank BBT chart in two different formats: PDF or Excel Spreadsheet. This chart also includes an area to record your Cervical Mucus assessments.
In order to chart your basal body temperature ( BBT ) you will need to purchase a basal thermometer. Before you get up each morning, you will take your temperature before you do ANYTHING. Any activity can lead to innacurate temperature readings. At the time of ovulation, you will see a spike in your temperature which will indicate that you have already ovulated. Considering that you need to have sex 2 to 3 days away from ovulation in order to increase your chances of having a girl, you will need to chart at least two months before you can make good use of the information that your charting reveals.


------AKU ABAIKAN. TAKDE BASAL THERMOMETER & MALAS NAK CHARTING!-------

3) Using Ovulation Predictor Kits

The final way Shettles recommends for finding out the exact time you are ovulating is by using ovulation predictor kits. These kits detect when your body has released LH (Luteinizing Hormone), a precursor to ovulation. Dr. Shettles suggests testing twice a day in to make sure you catch the surge as early as possible. He recommends testing once between 11am and 3 pm and then again between 5pm and 10pm. When all factors are considered, ovulation will most likely occur about 24 hours after the time when you get a positive result for the lh surge on your ovulation predictor kit. Dr. Shettles offers indepth explanations on how to interpret the ovulation predictor kits in his book so be sure to read all the information he provides.
Store bought ovulation predictor kits can cost quite a bit, but we offer them here at BabyHopes.com for a very reasonable price. You can read the product specification of our ovulation predictor kits on our product desription page.


---- AKU ABAIKAN JUGAK COS MALAS NAK BELI KIT PLAK DAH. INSTEAD, AKU CHECK BILA AKU OVULATE GUNA OVULATION CALCULATOR JE. SENANG----

Frequency and Timing of Intercourse: (ni je yang aku bace)

Shettles says in order to increase the chances of having a girl, you should have sex everyday from the end of your period up to 2 1/2 to 3 days before ovulation. After this point, do not have unprotected sex until several days past ovulation.
Intercourse further away from ovulation favors the larger slower moving X (girl) sperm. The weaker Y (boy) sperm will die more quickly in the more acidic preovulatory vaginal / cervical secretions and by the time of ovulation there will be a much larger concentration of X (girl) sperm available to fertilize the egg.

Sexual Position:

Shettles suggests that if you are trying to conceive a girl, shallow penetration from your partner, preferably with the missionary position, will deposit the sperm closer to the entrance to the vagina. This area is more acidic than closer to the cervix and acidity will work against the weaker “boy” sperm leaving more “girl” sperm available to fertilize your egg.

Sex and Orgasms:

When trying to conceive a girl, Shettles recommends that you don’t orgasm during sex as the body produces substances after orgasm that makes the vaginal environment more alkaline, which favors the “boy” sperm.
The contractions which accompany an orgasm help move the sperm up and into the cervix, giving the “boy” sperm an extra chance at being available when your egg is available for fertilization.


Tu jer...

Kita boleh berusaha, tapi segala rezeki dan ketentuan semuanya Allah yang bagi. Maka, jangan lupa berdoa kepadaNya.

Jom kawan-kawan yang TTC, kita try... nak dapat baby boy? Leh try bace SINI.


 Wassalam..


p/s: aku ade banyak review tak tulis lagi ni... bleh plak copy paste article ni. huhu

Written By Ryehana
alhamdulIllah...